Fearing to disappoint or be distanced from the Beloved.
The scholar Al-Razi (Fakhr al-Din al-Razi) wrote in his Tafsir al-Kabir that the sign of correct love ( hubb al-haqq ) is that when a command from Allah contradicts a desire from the self, the command wins immediately, without internal negotiation. Fearing to disappoint or be distanced from the Beloved
The earlier part you mentioned, , appears in the same verse but refers to the polytheists: the command wins immediately
A detailed explanation of the regarding this verse. Fearing to disappoint or be distanced from the Beloved
So the full verse (2:165) contrasts two groups: